For Real this Time

I'm truly over Wheelin. Yes, I just mentioned him in my last post....but thats only because we still text occasionally. I'm trying the whole friendship thing. It's nothing like the type of friends we were...but oh well. So, how do I know its for real this time.........well the letter really helped, but what truly did it is (of course the cowardly way that I've been avoiding) I started hanging out with someone else. We'll call him Chess. I've known Chess for over a year, actually met him a few months before I met Wheelin. I just tried searching my blog for him to see if I've ever mentioned him and I can't find him anywhere. Chess I just considered a friend and off limits for a few reasons. 1. He's 6 years younger than me. 2. He was my boss' daughter's boyfriend for two-three months. 3. I thought he was uptight. So, I never put him in that category.

I have hung out with him once every few months. I love to go salsa/merengue dancing, he's a great dancer. So he's called and invited me out. I've always had a great time with him. About a month ago, we went out, he picked me up and we had some drinks. I had a few too many and I decided to kiss him. We ended up having a make-out session. Now we've hung out at least once a week, this past weekend he took me up to his granparents place in UT and I got to go snowboarding. He hung out in the lodge. I'm not sure whats going to happen with him....but it has helped me with the Wheelin situation.

Keeping it Casual List

My favorite morning radio (Marc and Mercedes at Mix 94.1) show was talking about a list located at radio alice about things a guy should never do if he wants to keep a relationship casual. I sent a text to Wheelin right away telling him that he should be listening to.

#9. Never tell her you miss her.

#8. Never take her out on romantic dates.

#7. Never tell her you’re being exclusive with her physically.

#6. Never take care of her when she’s sick.

#5. Never talk about how special she is, or how much you like her.

#4. Never introduce her to your family or friends.

#3. Never make plans for the future, especially travel plans.

#2. Never cook for her, give her massages, or do anything else a boyfriend would.

#1. Never spend more than two nights a week together.

The ones in bold, are the ones Wheelin did. He cooked for me almost every time I went to his. Gave me a massage pretty much every time he saw me, etc....

Hahahahaha he never responded.