I was asked the other day by a guy "So why does a good looking girl like you not have a boyfriend?", it's not the first time I've been asked. I've been technically single for three years now. I know the question is just a line to get more info, but it makes me wonder as well. Why have I been single for 3 years now? My initial thought is just that I have kids, and because I'm committed to them I don't have a ton of time for guys. I fill the role of temp girlfriend better for most guys....or cool chick to hang out with once a week. Of course this isn't the answer I give to the interviewers...it's more along the lines of "I took time off from guys, then got busy". I'm so freaking busy its ridiculous. I also feel like I can't slow down, I keep adding and hardly taking anything away from my obligations.
How do most single mom's date? Is it normal for guys to not want anything serious with you because 1) You have kids 2)You have an ex-husband you have to deal with regularly 3) You're too busy, and because you have kids you can't just go out whenever....or any combination of these. It could just be something with me, but I don't see how guys keep popping in, but nothing comes out of it.
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