Is this really going to help?

Bitch (noun): a woman who won"t bang her head against the wall obsessing over someone else's opinion - be it a man or anyone else in her life. She understands the if someone does not approve of her, it's just one person's opinion; therefore, it's of no real importance. She doesn't try to live up to anyone else's standards - only her own. Because of this, she relates to a man very differently.

Today one of my co-workers said the definition of insanity is to continue to do the same thing and expect different results. Yes, I know she didn't make that up, but I hadn't heard it in a while and I was at least trying to give someone credit for making it pop up in my head again. So the main question is, Will becoming a bitch help me? Do I want a guy that is attracted to bitches? BFF is reading the book pictured above. I didn't really think she had a problem being a bitch till she met someone she really liked. So I'm on standby for the book. I'm all for books that can help but it seems like a lot of the times the books just make things more confusing. I've read The Rules and He's Just Not That Into You. Little tid bits from both of those books have stayed in my head but I really believe everything is on a case by case basis. I'm also single and divorced. But I do believe I should get kudos for having been with my ex-husband for 12 years.

Anyways, I was telling her about the booty call situation having a kink in it...since he kind of asked to take me to dinner and an outdoor play. BFF started giving me pointers according to what her book said. Really, I don't want to be a bitch. i just want to be me, that is just easier. I like me and I don't want to mold myself into something bitchy just to get someone. Really it just isn't worth it. Will I still read the book...Yes, its peeked my interest.