Thursday, September 24, 2009

Fun times in San Antonio


I started dating my ex at 16 after 3 years we broke up while I was in the military doing AIT (job training) in San Antonio TX. Lucky for me I had a gorgeous/nice guy "Honda" that was interested in replacing him in the mean time. Honda was 28 years old (9 years older than me), he was switching from the marines to army (so he was in phenomenal shape), and since he was older he was one of the only people that had a car in our Company.

For the 2 months we were down there, we were inseparable. He treated me like a queen. We had sex pretty much every chance we got. On our last night in the barracks we ended up having sex in a wall locker...it was the only place that gave you any privacy. He was great and once the 2 months passed I was sent back home and he was shipped to Hawaii. He sent me a card and I never wrote back.

Eleven years later he finds me on facebook. It has been so fun talking to him and reminiscing. We had it so good back then. Life was uncomplicated...the worse you had to deal with was drill sergeants and what hotel we would be staying in that weekend. Now he's in a relationship of 8 years, she has 2 kids and they're having problems. I'm now a single mom of two little girls. Honda hasn't found many people from his past so this was all new to him. I've done this drill several times and it seems to be the same each time. Find someone, reminisce about the past, then after several conversations realize you don't have anything to talk about anymore, then drift apart again. He's probably also interesting in taking a trip down memory because his current relationship is having problems. I gave him some advice, to remember why he loved her to begin with and that every relationship has its problems. We'll see how it works out...memory lane was nice. Wonder if I could still pull it off in a wall locker..........

1 comment:

  1. haha that's awesome - and impressive! (the wall locker part)

    Thanks for the comments on my blog! You are right about the clean slate...just gotta let it go and keep believing something better is out there. :)

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