Friday, September 11, 2009

What is normal?


So, I've been trying to back off of Wheelin...little by little. Kind of...maybe... Well whatever the point is that I played soccer last night and hurt my ankle. I have 2 soccer games to play today after work. I told one of my team mates that I was still in pain but that I was coming to the game regardless. He told me to take some advil and that he would bring icy hot and a brace. In the mean time I have been working on my first paper that I have to turn in to my Political Science class tomorrow (I haven't written a paper in over 10 years). I'm nervous about my paper because I have been out of school writing mode for so long...and if you read my blog at all you know that I'm not a good writer. Well Wheelin offered to help me with my paper...asked me to help him look at more houses. The part of me that likes him wants to drop everything and meet him....the sane part of me realizes that its pretty stupid to go to soccer with a messed up ankle and that my paper is more important. The ego part of me wishes that he would do the same for me...drop everything to hang out with me every now and then.

So I'm curious, how normal is it to want to be around a person that you like...every chance you get? Usual between us is around once a week. If I could see him more I would like to...but he often reminds me about he doesn't like couples that spend so much time together. Like his buddies that he doesn't get to see much because they're glued to their current girlfriends or objects of affection. I think some of that is normal to want to be around the person that you really like, I also feel its normal to want to be around your friends without that person or also on your own at times. Never mind...I'm rambling

2 comments:

  1. I personally need lots of freedom. Going out(doors) with my friends is really important and I don't always take my girl with me. I think everyone needs to have his/her share of independence.

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